Tuesday, November 3, 2009
Why Do You HATE Me..?
Ok you guys, maybe its just me, but honestly I have the WORST run-ins with other females that are significantly larger than me in size. For some reason that I have yet to figure out, overweight females DO NOT LIKE ME! This sounds crazy, but it's true you guys! I know its noramlly true that you find friends and bond with others that are like you, but I never knew weight was one of those deciding factors, UGH! Also, I have friends that are small and have problems with fat people! Why is this??!! Why is that weight causes so much hatred towards someone. As far as dating, there are some who chose a heavier partner, but then you have the majority of those who won't even LOOK at an overweight person for love, friendship, nothing! Tell me what you guys think, how do you feel? SAY WHAT'S REAL!
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Ok, so this post is interesting. There are a lot of questions being asked so Im gonna attempt to answer them all. In college, my roomate was about 60lbs heavier than. We would go shopping together and he would try to get the same size as me. I thought "Dude, you are bigger than me" but never really said anything. Then it got to a point where urban clothes were whack, and clothes that actually fit became the style for men. He would go in my closet and wear my clothes to class. I had no prob wit it but I always thought ur squeezing into that shirt. Long story short, he told me that he wished he had a small sexy body.. Lol, yea his exact words. He didnt like that the social norm of fashion was changing to fit skinnier ppl but wanted to do it to. This caused a cople arguements btwn us but nothing too serious.
ReplyDeleteNow as far as befriending others, i dont care about your race, size, sexuality, gender or anything as long as we get along and you have the qualities I look for in a friend. Dating for me is different though. I can admit that im shallow or superficial when it comes to dating. Im just not attracted to larger sized people. They could be the sweetest in the world but I cant get past not being physically attracted to someone. I def have flaws myself, but Im not upset about not fitting someone elses preference. I learned that Everybody dont want you regardless of what u think about yourself or how much you think you're right for someone. I think that there are a lot of shallow ppl like myself out there who rule out subgroups like overweight ppl and probably miss out on a lot of good ppl.
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Ok so when I first read this I could not help but to think of the movie :: Precious :: n secretly lol to myself. Now personally my bestfriend is not skinny like me. She got a bad shape but she likes her size. Goin with that though I have never thought in any moment in my life to ever bring up her weight because it has never become an issue of envy. I have made friends with overweight women n thus far out of all those friendships one was sadly unsuccessful. This particular female had self-esteem issues herself. Confessed that she had an eattin disorder before. I never looked at her weight as an issue but she felt as if she had to compete with me for attention of others because I was skinny. therefore because of this invisible consistant competition that she was in with me led to our friendship becoming no more.
ReplyDeleteNow on the other hand I dont have a lot of fat people in my family. Most people are of the right proportions (if u get what I mean). My father was always critical of making sure that I knew beauty was on the inside but you also had to catch a man's attention by keepin up with your outter appearance. So with that being said I do take much pride on maintaining my figure and would hate if I ever got to a point in my life where I had to buy a whole new wardrobe because I grew some inches around the waist.
As far as dating a fat man or just a man with a belly is a no go. I just cant imagine his belly rubbin on me whenever we doin the do, that just grosses me out thinking about it. But like the saying goes "Beauty is in the eye of the beholder" If u like belly rubbin on ur back or front, or if u like ur man having man boobs then go for it.
Hope my comment brings for more colorful discussion ;)