YOU have a PURPOSE...

I would like to bring the conversation to a more serious note for this blog post. I have been having battles with myself about where my life is heading and if I'm happy with how things are going for me at this point. I can honestly say I'm not 100% happy with what I do now and I say this because I know God has bigger and better plans for me. There has been many doors shut in my face and I never really understood why because I know my capabilities and I know I'm talented at anything I put my heart and mind to. It took for me to actually meet a certain person and take a look at how I saw so much of myself in him to realize I was doing all the wrong things. I prayed and prayed and God finally gave me the answers as to why I'm in the posisiton that I'm in now in life and my career. I was blind to what He placed directly in front of me. I turned down opportunities because I just thought I knew it all. After praying about my situation one night and then dreaming about it, I KNOW SUCCESS AND HAPPINESS is only 1 step away..I want u guys to think about whatever it is in life that makes you happy and fulfills your lifelong dream and tell me what have you done to reach that goal. God places things and/or people in our lives for a reason so what or who is your motivation...Say what's real

...but why are YOU mad?!! LOL

Let me first start off by saying "I have nothing against gay or lesbian people", but I felt that this would be a great topic to discuss. I am TOTALY straight, but I have quite a few friends who like the same sex. I have also met numerous people who STRONGLY DISLIKE gay and lesbian people. Why is it that other people GET MAD because someone else is gay??! LOL..like what the hell does that have to do with you or YOUR LIFE!? I can understand you not agreeing with their sexuality, but still, U GON' get MAD though?! I've even met people who say they are scared of gay people..WTF?! Help me ya'll!! Not only do you pre-judge them as an individual, but you stereotype them. Im NOT an advocate for gay or straight people, I was just raised to accept people for who they are. People say "im comfortable with my sexuality; i know i aint gay", so why do they make others feel uncomfortable about theirs. It's not really fair. I know being gay is against MANY MANY religious beliefs and goes against the Word, but who ARE WE TO JUDGE?! I kno this may fire some of u up, but that good ( hehe) because I want to hear your opinions> DO NOT POST ANY NAME CALLING OR DISRESPECTFUL COMMENTS TO EITHER GAY OR STRAIGHT PEOPLE...but please...SAY WHAT's REAL!

*It's A THiN LiNe BeTwEEN LOVE 'n HATE*

Im sitting here watching the VMA preshow and it is def the reason for this blog, not to mention everyday life situations....*sigh* Now, when I saw the quick shot of BEyoncE, I said to myself, "I AM SOOO HAtING" lol..but its a Good kind of hate, because I LOVE BEYONCE! She's the closest thing to a perfect womAn in my eyes..such a beautiful individual. On the flip side of this, there are SEVERAL peoplE, believe it or not, that actually HATE on BEyonce (AND people who aren't famous) in the "bad way" even when that person has NOTHING wrong with them. I've heard and watched people down talk other people simply because they CAN'T BE THEM, in my opinion, or they don't have what that other person has.. hmm...My question to u guys is, where do you draw the line? How do you distinguish between a HATER and someone who is jus being real? I thought if what that person was saying about the other person was true then yea, they are jus being real, but most of the time its matter of opinion so who's to say if the person being "hated" on is actually ugly, or can't dress, etc. OR if the one speaking is needing that title; HATER!! I want to hear from you guys..fill me in..SAY WHAT'S REAL!

//MateRiaL GiRL..?!//

Let me first start off by saying that I am sometimes guilty of the following issue but I must blog about it to see what my peers' views are. With that being said, I'll start with the ladies: tell me why it's it so important when you consider "talking" to or dating someone that WE LOOK AT THEIR SHOES! LOL I honestly couldn't tell you more than one or two reasons why the maintenance or type of shoes they wear matters so much to me. I feel like if you can't maintain urself and be NEAT (I like neat guys), then what the hell can you bring to this relationship but more DISASTER, like your shoes. Ladies, tell me what u consider, physically when chosing ur "boo" lol. Now as for u men, I know a lot of times, the size of a girl's ASS seems to make all the difference but I do know of some guys that consider 'other things'...so hey, I don't know..so fill me in. Let me kno wassup...SAY WHAT'S REAL!

"People doN't DaNcE No Mo' "

Have you ever felt like you just wanted to have a FUN-FILLED night, so you and some friends decide to go out and party all night long. When you get to the club or lounge, etc. you notice faces that make you think, "damn im so tried of seeing him/her in every club I go to". Well have u ever stopped to think that JUST MAYBE they feel the same way about you..hmmm. Personally, im not a big "club head" anymore for several reasons, but one that was brought to my attention today was, WHAT IS THE POINT IN CLUBBING?!" At most clubs nowadays, people are going for the fashion show of it and they do nothing but stand around and listen to the music...but WAIT, can't u do that at home?? You pay $20+ to get in just to do what u can do at home, FOR FREE! LOL...think deeply about this guys...SAY WHAT'S REAL!

-BLkCHiiNADoLL

CHILL; WE'RE JUST "DATING"...


Hello everyone! This is the FIRST blog entry that I decided to do came from a conversation I recently had with a friend of mine. He feels that there is no point in "dating" someone if you know that you aren't going to marry them or you dont see them as "marriage" material. I feel like this, if I go as far as making you my boyfriend, then obviously I see some potential in you, lol. Im not going to say that I'm looking at you as my HUSBAND already, but making you my boyfriend was a BIG step for me to begin with. When I get into relationships, im in the for the long run and I only hope that they last, but as we have all experienced, SHYT happens, people change, emotions change and all other types of stuff. So my queation to you is, how do you approach relationships? Do you feel that dating is pointless, unless your going to marry that person....SAY WHAT'S REAL!

-BLkCHiiNADoLL