Monday, September 21, 2009
...but why are YOU mad?!! LOL
Let me first start off by saying "I have nothing against gay or lesbian people", but I felt that this would be a great topic to discuss. I am TOTALY straight, but I have quite a few friends who like the same sex. I have also met numerous people who STRONGLY DISLIKE gay and lesbian people. Why is it that other people GET MAD because someone else is gay??! LOL..like what the hell does that have to do with you or YOUR LIFE!? I can understand you not agreeing with their sexuality, but still, U GON' get MAD though?! I've even met people who say they are scared of gay people..WTF?! Help me ya'll!! Not only do you pre-judge them as an individual, but you stereotype them. Im NOT an advocate for gay or straight people, I was just raised to accept people for who they are. People say "im comfortable with my sexuality; i know i aint gay", so why do they make others feel uncomfortable about theirs. It's not really fair. I know being gay is against MANY MANY religious beliefs and goes against the Word, but who ARE WE TO JUDGE?! I kno this may fire some of u up, but that good ( hehe) because I want to hear your opinions> DO NOT POST ANY NAME CALLING OR DISRESPECTFUL COMMENTS TO EITHER GAY OR STRAIGHT PEOPLE...but please...SAY WHAT's REAL!
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Great topic... When I first read the post it made me laugh because I have seen people get very upset over this thing!!! I mean cursing and everything, especially African American men. I think that is a very good question though? Why do people get so upset? Some may say it is due to their religion while others have simply said that seeing homosexuals make them sick. Personally it doesnt bother me. As you stated, who are we to judge? The "psychologist" in me wants to empathize with them simply because often times homosexuals state that they were born this way so how can it be a sin? Its a tough topic and to this day still very controversial {even though it is much more accepted today than it was a few decades ago. Until the mide 70s, it was a sexual mental disorder in the DSM}. I think that people get angry for different reasons although they really shouldnt. Its one thing not to agree with someone's lifestyle but its another thing all together to get so upset that your blood pressure has raised a few notches. lol At the end of the day, people are going to do what they do and only God will have the final say. If it bothers you that much, you can just avoid homosexuals. However, I dont think you should make a scene and make them feel any more uncomfortable than they may already be.
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true, so true when U say that many of them feel them are born this one. Its deeper than what we think..or even WHAT WE KNOW!?!
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ReplyDeleteSo I am a male and I've always found myself to be a little different than the avg boy at a very young age. I can remember being like 5 and painting my nails and LOVED doing the hair on a Barbie doll!! lol. But yeah, as a kid in elementary school, I wad definitely doing different things than the other boys my age. Now growing up, I shifted into more activities that were "male-centered" like sports, baseball cards, and all that. But still at the young age of 10-11, I recognized that I found guys attractive. Continuing on, I was still very masculine and had the same girlfriend all four years of high school, but was confused about what was going on with me. I loved females, but I was attracted to males too.
I never acted on my feelings toward a male until my sophomore year in college. And, I haven't looked back since. LOL. Yeah, but it definitely validated my weird attraction to men. Don't get me wrong, I still love women and want to marry one one day, but I honestly felt like I NEEDED and OWED it to myself to act on what I was feeling.
Now, to the topic. I hid it from my friends for a long time.. Shit, still hiding it from some of them. But I feel that me telling them won't make things easier. I don't think they would be judgmental but I really don't know sometimes. Right now in my life, I have a F*** it attitude about it, and I'm like, you not doing sh** for me so why should I care if you know or not..
In my experience, girls live for gay or bi men. And gay/bi men live for "pretty girls" who keep themselves up. Hence the love for Beyonce, lol. As far as the people who are against it, I really don't understand why? If you are uncomfortable with it, just keep a healthy distance from the LGBT community. You don't have to talk about anyone. And if you don't agree, voice your opinion and move on. I know what the bible says, but I agree with the nature theory that I was born this way.
This subject is really tough! And deep! And could go so much further. I could talk on it for days, but Im gonna stop right here!